The Glass Menagerie
After reading the first five scenes of “The Glass Menagerie,” Tom’s double role as narrator and main character is quite conflicting at times. As narrator, he sometimes addresses the audience directly; providing an in-depth explanation and assessment of what’s occurring on stage. Yet, in the same breath demonstrates genuine emotions caused by his mother and feelings of confinement as he takes part in the action of the play as well. This double role sometimes frustrates my understanding of Tom’s character because I’m not entirely sure if he’s playing the narrator whose judgement can be trusted, or if he’s playing the character who would let his emotions interfere and over-ride his judgement. Despite this confusion, it’s evident how Amanda is trying to control every aspect of Tom’s life.
The first scenario encountered was in the beginning of the play on page 6, when Amanda is trying to tell Tom how to eat his food. She says, “Chew. Don't push with your fingers. Chew. Chew!” Tom then proceeds to exclaim how he “hasn’t enjoyed one bite of the dinner because of her constant directions”(page 6.) This gives insight into Tom and Amanda’s relationship early in the play. This shows how Amanda is so cavil and demanding that the family can’t even enjoy a quiet, peaceful meal due to her constantly directing and controlling her children.
Then again on page 21, Amanda shows her habitual controlling habits once again when she confiscates Toms books because she considered them “hideous”. This demonstrates how Amanda is only accepting of her children’s hobbies if they are benefiting to her. She gives absolutely no regard to Tom’s dreams and aspirations of adventure because he wouldn’t be fulfilling his position of breadwinner at the family table if he went off and did what pleases him most. That’s why Tom aspires to be like the magician from the magic show. He would love to escape the confinement of the coffin that is portrayed as his house without removing and damaging any nails that lay within; ultimately showing that he wants to keep his family together but is desperate to escape his mother’s controlling grasp.
I chose this picture to incorporate in the blog because it is a great representation of how the characters in the written play would act in a live production. Just from this image alone, students can asses the personality of all three characters. Amanda, who is always hovering over Toms shoulder and is extremely demanding is hunched over and is placing her hand on the table as if in an agitated manner giving one of those "mom talks." Tom on the other hand looks as if hes barely listening to her and could care less about what shes saying. Then there's Laura who isnt engaged in the conversation at all but looks very timid, shy and anxious. By her demeanor alone, you can tell shes not like her other family members.
I feel like Amanda only acts that way because she truly believes she's just looking out for her children and being a good mother. I don't think it's in a malicious way, she's just trying to do the best she can. I believe Amanda would rather be controlling and lead her children into the right direction, rather than her children be reckless and take the embarrassment of their actions. That's why I think she's so tough on them.
ReplyDeleteI understand she wants to make sure her children have a good future, but I also think she is trying to live her life through her children. In the play she says "we" a lot when she is talking about their future so that is where I got the thought she is trying to live through their life. At the same time she could be wanting the best for them so when I read more I'm hoping to find out.
DeleteI agree with both perspectives on Amanda's parental instincts. Yet, I feel as though we can compare it to modern society today. If a parent is so overwhelming and controlling, their child is more likely to rebel and try to be the exact opposite of what their parent wants them to be. Even though in Amanda's eyes shes just trying to prepare her kids for the future and to be successful, she is completely ignorant to their wants and how they are as an individual. Shes trying to turn her kids into someone they arent. Laura isnt obsessed about the gentleman callers like her mother and Tom craves adventure and enjoy the simplicity of his warehouse job. Im curious to see how the characters evolve by the end of the play.
ReplyDeleteI feel as though Amanda really just wants what is best for her kids and to also try to find Laura a good guy who is not like her father. However, the way she is going about it isn't really the correct way, because as you can see Laura and Tom both "rebel" against their mothers ways.It is alright to try and guide your kids down the right path to see them successful but you have to let them have their own say in thing and sometimes even if that means letting them learn the hard way by messing up a few times.
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